Realizations

I recently came across lists of things people think other people their age need to realize. I am not one of those people who opens up a journal the beginning of November and creates a list of what I want to accomplish in the next 360 some odd days. Rather, my realizations and the tasks I set forth for myself are more campaigns than events – beliefs formed and gradually played out. Some happen while sitting in a sunny window at a coffee shop with a friend, others driving (usually caffeinated) deeper into the woods. Wherever and whenever your changes/plans/resolutions come I wish you strength as that is more often needed than luck.

You can’t redo the most important moments in life. So do them right the first time around.

If people aren’t adding to your life, they’re taking away from your life.

If your life is easy, then you’re not trying hard enough.

Your religion isn’t any better or more righteous than anyone else’s. It’s just a different version of the same theory.  **I read this and think it’s something to ponder and discuss at length. On principal I agree, but there is so much I am ignorant of when it comes to different religions. Overall regardless I try to practice respect not judgment.

People are mostly made by nurture, not nature.  **Really think about that and where your nurturing came from and comes from. I find myself telling those I love – taking care of yourself is humanness and kindness not selfishness. Selfishness is something ugly, but nurturing is beautiful.

Most of the foods we eat shouldn’t even be labeled as “food.”

Being physically and mentally active  are often the differentiating factors between being happy and being miserable.  **Read anything, take classes in person or online, run, ride a bike or a horse, swim, walk don’t take the elevator. A lazy mind or body is such a waste.

If you love them, tell them. A shocking number of individuals never get that chance.   **I read this one and WOW WOW. I did this once. Had my heart broken. Lived through it and am stronger and in a better place for it. Maybe next time if I am brave enough again there will be a happier ending.

Change is always possible. Your life is your story, write the future chapters for the best possible view of yourself. The person you believe you can be.

Blame only gets you so far. Responsibility will take you home. Accept that sometimes you are the problem.

Now, right now – we all do. This is for you dSK (my best friend/positive inspiration) You need to stop stereotyping.  And while we’re at it judge a whole lot less if at all.

And then there’s this one.  If you can’t have fun without drinking, then you probably have a drinking problem.  **I recently realized I really don’t like drinking alcohol. The occasional whiskey – when it’s really, really good sure – but in general the gin and tonics I used to love just make me feel sick.  When I go out I’d prefer to drink fizzy water and enjoy the conversation and food clearly.

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Pluto Flyby

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It is the eve of the historic Pluto flyby and I am psyched!!

Nearly a decade ago NASA launched the spacecraft New Horizons to capture data and images of the dwarf planet Pluto and it’s system.

The robotic probe is on track to pass about 7,750 miles from Pluto at 7:50 a.m. Eastern time Tuesday.

The New Horizons team, based at the Johns Hopkins University Applied Physics Laboratory (APL) just outside Baltimore, MD, won’t know whether the spacecraft successfully passed through the Pluto system until 8:53 p.m. Tuesday. That’s when New Horizons is supposed to check in with a data report.

Here is a mission update from NASA – the lead researcher described it as an “enchanting in its strangeness and alien beauty” love that!  So far they have discovered it is larger than they thought, is releasing nitrogen, and has a polar ice cap.

Image Credit: NASA/JHUAPL/SWRI.

Bees

A few bee pics from this past weekend…I will soon have about 20 pounds of spring honey!!

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Way better use of campaign signs (note, I abhor political campaign budgets). My bee mentor J is like one of those super smart inventors you see in films/on TV sometimes – he should absolutely have a TV show about beekeeping. He knows where/when to collect pine needles for his smoker – there’s a street after a storm that will provide him for a year. And he came up with this great idea of using those wasteful yard signs to protect frames of capped honey stolen from a hive from robber bees.

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Blue marked queen. You mark a virgin queen so you know how old she is. International queen bee year codes: 1 or 6 white, 2 or 7 yellow, 3 or 8 red, 4 or 9 green, 5 or 0 blue.)

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Weekend Reading

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Happy almost weekend!

Taking a pause from kitty pictures momentarily to share what else is going on in my little corner of the world.

After spending many moments thinking about all the things I used to do and miss I decided it was time to literally get back on the horse again. This past week I started taking horseback riding lessons and got back in a pool. I consider myself a relatively active and happy person, but my routine has gotten a bit stale as has my environment. I need, like any living breathing thing, stimulation. The happiness from the hours I spend on horseback and swimming laps will permeate into the rest of my days and add a healthy dose of pleasure.

I had a conversation last night with one of my oldest friends. We were talking about the difference between taking care of one’s self and selfishness. The latter is ugly, the former is necessary.  The former is about not waiting until every single thing has been completed on your to-do list, about tossing guilt into an imaginary paper sack on the side of the road (no real littering folks!!). It is about a careless afternoon wandering through bookstores and having lunch at your favorite diner. It is about taking yourself to the movies. It is about reading a book on a bench in the sun. It is about going to a baseball game sipping beer and eating one of those divine pretzels covered in mustard. It is about putting on your favorite music, pouring yourself a glass of wine and reorganizing your closet. And so much more.

Better Late Than Never
I finally started paying attention to podcasts. Talk about late to the party. I love The Kitchen Sisters Fugitive Waves and Southern Foodways Alliance’s Gravy. The former chronicles hidden bits of history and subjects who have shaped our diverse cultural landscape. The latter tells stories of people and place in the American South through food.

Living Mindfully
Be humble. Be courteous. Behave yourself (inside voices). Be friendly. Be modest. Say “please” and “thank you” always.

Link Love
Susan Cain’s Quiet Revolution – a site for introverts. Let the education begin.

*Note, on the social media front….I removed myself officially from Facebook. I privatized my Instagram account. Deleted several boards from my Pinterest account. And, am only holding onto Twitter as I love it for a research tool.

For the longest  time I have been observing this world we live in – and how the smartest, kindest, bravest people I know are caught up in social media. These computerized tools have turned them – and for a time me too – into affirmation addicts. We post something and constantly check to see how many people have liked or commented on said post. After realizing this was not healthy and a giant waste of time I came to two conclusions (1) The reality of most social media feeds – pictures are posed, professionally lit, styled…they are not real – they are the best outtakes = they are no more real often times than the models on the pages of Vogue magazine. (2) The things I enjoy – that bring richness to my life – are not technological or industrial – they are things we make with our hands. These are real things. Lovely and human.

Kittens Post Two

The last time I adopted a kitten it was the age of film and I did not take as many photos. This digital age I am making up for it with these three. No promises there will not be more kitten posts of Faulkner, Harper, and Tennessee in the future :)

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Weekend Reading: Kittens

I really will get to a thorough Weekend Reading post soon, but for this week I hope the pics of the three adorable kittens I adopted earlier this week will do.

Introducing: Tennessee (a ham for the camera!!), Faulkner, and Harper. Since the feathered gals of Great Cluck Egg Farm are all named after my favorite female authors I took the opportunity to use the names of their male counterparts. *I was going to name Harper “Truman” but just couldn’t get the image of the former U.S. President out of my head and well, Harper Lee does have that book coming out in a few weeks (pre-ordered via Hello Hello Books!!) I went ahead with it. The three are brothers adopted via a cat rescue. They are the sweetest things. Their number one favorite toys? The trash can and the printer cable. Wild furballs of energy they exhaust each other.

Without further adieu…

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The ham of the bunch – Tennessee. Before I got him home the image of him shouting ‘Hey Stella!’  just came to mind. He has this overwhelming personality to him = cuddles!!

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The only picture of Faulkner and Harper both in the frame and not in motion. Oh boys!!

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Harper, who is a tad lighter than Faulkner and little bigger too.

 

 

Belated Weekend Reading

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Loretta Lynn said “You’ve got to continue to grow, or you’re just like last night’s cornbread – stale and dry.” Well folks, all this growing has meant a lot less posting in recent weeks.

Things I have been up to:
Reading – Faulkner, Anne Rivers Siddons, more Alexandra Fuller… Signing up for horseback riding lessons – cannot wait. Signing up to volunteer for Special Surfers Nights. Loads of research for three writing/creative projects I am in love with. Planting vegetables and flowers. Fighting a losing battle with the resident woodchuck(s) – I may have the upper hand after tomorrow with higher fences – so there! Beekeeping – splitting hives, installing new ones in Portland (pics at top). Stitching a shirt for me and one for a friend. Taking classes online for free with my beloved Coursera. Nursing a wild duck some jack#$ hit with a car (as of this morning he is with a local waterfowl authority/nurse/Dr. Doolittle person). Filling out paperwork for/and meeting my new kittens – what do you think of Tennessee, Faulkner, and Harper? Okay so they are three boys and Harper is of course for Harper Lee – but the name Harper could go either way and I just don’t love the name Truman (though I love Capote’s writing). Hanging out with a friend up the coast – sitting outside on a dock eating mussels mmm. Hanging out with another eating Somali food in Lewiston and attending another uber talented friend’s photography show opening. Having tea – so civilized – with another in Portland. Eating more of those ridiculously good biscuits with the homemade jam and whipped butter at Tandem Bakery. Hanging out at the library. I did not realize how much I missed hardcover books! Getting a new (old/used) Filson ruck sack I am in love with and will use every chance I get = road trips, out of the country trips…

And…I keep thinking about how I value things I do with my hands – and how with the exception of using the computer for research and Netflix – I am so uninterested in technological and industrial things. I want to make things – food, pottery, clothes – garden – ride horses – real stuff. Marketing folks call this “slow living” I call it humanness. There has been a loss of kindness in this world with all the tech/industrial advancements. It has greatly and sadly affected how people behave and are raising their kids.

Every day I confront rudeness and ugliness. Whatever happened to people holding the door open for the next person, saying please and thank you, giving advance notice to canceling an appointment, responding in appropriate time, not using your mobile device during a meal, inside (vs. outside) voices, giving your seat up to an elderly person, etiquette at the dining table, and on and on.

In the vein of using one’s hands – this might be of interest to some: MOFGA’s orcharding workshops, including Summer Orchard Care on June 27 with MOFGA’s organic orchardist, C.J. Walke, and Bud Grafting on August 8 with Seth Yentes of MOFGA-certified organic North Branch Farm. For fee and registration information on these and other events, please click on the Events tab at www.mofga.org.

Weekend Reading (aka Bee Update and Swarm Info)

I promise more of a proper Weekend Reading post next week. This is really just a “here are some photos I took of today’s hive inspection” – in which we (my mentor J and I) split two hives and moved around some queen cells. We also fed a lot of drone brood to the featured gals of Great Cluck Egg Farm – side note I am beginning to think some of my gals are more like dogs the way they tug at something like a dog would a bone and then go hide it before devouring it – dog like?

Anyhow, we split the hives to create two new ones in Portland (I will be sharing pics soon as next week I believe) and so J would have some queen eggs to rear queens – he says he likes my queens because they are so calm.

For more on reasons to split hives go here.

This is smack dab in the middle of the season when a beekeeper will split some hives. It is also when folks will report seeing swarms. Note, swarms are when bees are at their calmest. Unless you go sticking your neck in the middle of one or something stupid chances are you can observe them (a swarm is a beautiful thing) safely from several feet away.  **If you do spot a swarm please contact an experienced beekeeper and/or this hotline.  I would imagine The Honey Exchange in Portland might also be interested, but the hotline or a beekeeping friend really should be your first contact.

OK, pics:

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What you are seeing:

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Pic 5 split I’ll take into town to install next week

Pic 6 look close and you’ll see brood!! (yup, look like tiny maggots)

Pic 7 J’s truck being loaded with frames he’ll take back home

Pic 8 J’s queen castle or throne – as he says shouldn’t a queen have a home? He had this made for him – it’s so cool with three compartments so he can transport the beginnings of three colonies.

 

Weekend Reading

Has it really been three weeks since I posted here? Spring SPRUNG here in Maine and time has begun to fly by.

There’s been a coup (followed by futbol), an earthquake, the saga of Deflategate, NFL draft, more riots, dangerously bad reporting of the riots by Fox, and then in my corner of The Shire: chickens, bees, gardening, and stitching. The ice cream stands have all opened up where I am and the out-of-state license plates are here and in Portland in droves.  I polished off a few more books including Alexandra Fuller’s incredible Cocktail Hour Under the Tree of Forgetfulness. Her writing inspires me to be braver, more accepting, and a generally better/more interesting person. It also brings Africa to my front porch, where I sit and watch the chickens wander about and enjoy an occasionally strong whiff of the lilac bush when the breeze winds up and around my way.

Wishing you and yours a fun long weekend. In honor of our vets and those still in uniform, a couple charities that help military families: Operation Homefront and Wounded Warrior Project.

A few pics from the past month…

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I’m repurposing t-shirts into corsets for myself and friends using the Alabama Chanin pattern.

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Went to NYC for a few days to visit friends and attend a couple meetings. Hung out in Brooklyn Heights (went to The Long Island Bar, Sahadi’s, and Damascus Bakery), had crazy good pancakes at a Chelsea neighborhood diner, drank really strong gin punch at The Dead Rabbit, wandered around SoHo (went to Rudy’s Music with a musician/artist friend and got to hold a John Monteleone guitar), and spent time at the American Museum of Natural History.  Thanks M & JW!!!

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It is swarm season in Maine, so I have been dutifully checking my hives for closed queen cups (top bee pic shows open ones). I will likely go in tomorrow morning and make a couple splits = two new colonies will emerge that I will install in the supercalifragilisticexpialidocious hive bodies a creative associate painted for me. Those hive bodies will be installed in Portland.

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One of my favorite gals, “Big Momma” or MFK Fisher, snagged one of her toes on something in the coop and has been hobbling around the yard. She is still eating and able to move around, so not too worried yet. Her favorite spot is usually at my feet. Always has been.

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Get Lost: My Hometown: Carroll Gardens, Brooklyn

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I am super excited to share Jessica Antola’s (adopted) neighborhood of Carroll Gardens in the NYC borough of Brooklyn with you today. Jessica is a talented photographer I met in Maine (she photographed the gals of Great Cluck Egg Farm for a TBD article) who shares a love of Africa. Check out her website here!

How long have you lived in Brooklyn ?

I’ve lived in Carroll Gardens, Brooklyn for eight years, since Feb 2007 … and the time has flown!

What does it feel like in spring in Brooklyn?

There is an overall sense of relief and buzzing energy in the air. More people are on the streets, smiling and strolling about. Everyone comes out to thaw and new buds and flowers begin popping up everywhere. The landscape transforms from a grey, lifeless world to one filled with the most saturated, bright palate. The energy of this daily dramatic shift is infectious. Spring and fall are my favorites times of year in NY

What’s your favorite way to get about the area?

On foot or bike.

What do you miss most about your neighborhood when you’re away?

Being walking distance to basically everything I need as well as running into
friends on the streets.

What would surprise a newcomer to your area?

The Italian history and ongoing strength of the Italian community in the neighborhood. Carroll Gardens is full of Catholic churches, funeral parlors, Italian gentlemans’ societies/ clubs, various shrines to saints and the Virgin Mary and groups of older men speaking Italian are found on many corners.

Where are your favorite places to go with friends?

Restaurants/ bars:
Long Island Bar
Prime Meats
The Brooklyn Social Club
Hibino
Fort Defiance
Colonie
Rucola
The Brooklyn Inn
Pok Pok

Shops:
Bird
Book Court
Sahadis
Erie Basin (in Red Hook)
Antique/ vintage stores on Atlantic Ave

Where do you go for weekend getaways?

Shelter Island
Storm King
DIA Beacon
Upstate

Image by Jessica Antola from The Long Island Bar.

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About Me Sharon Kitchens and Delicious Musings. Welcome and thank you for visiting my blog. I write about all the things I enjoy - Culture, Food, Photography &Travel. Read more on my about page.

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